Marital bliss is not attained by force or the imposition of control, indeed this is wrong.
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Giving her a lift to university, along with his wife
I drop my wife off at university, and sometimes she has her friend with her, so is it permissible that I give her a lift together with my wife?
When to engage in intercourse after menses
Reference: Sharh ‘Umdatil-Fiqh – Tape No.7, Question No.15 Question: If the menstruating woman completes her menses, but has not had a bath [or shower], is it permissible for her to engage in intercourse with her husband? Response: No. Do not oppose the command [of Allaah]: {And do not approach them until they are pure. And […]
Using a condom
In pharmacies they sell condoms which are worn over the male genital, which allows him to engage in sexual relations with his wife to prevent a[ny possible] pregnancy. So if he uses a condom, is he [still] required to have a bath [or shower]?
Regularly visiting my parents
With my husband’s consent, I want to visit my parents, brothers and sisters who all live in Yemen, so if I find a mahram then this simplifies matters. So am I considered to be squandering my husband’s money by taking these visits every year?
Reconciling between my parents and my wife
How should a Muslim reconcile between keeping his parents and happy and hi wife happy?
Quarrelling between my wife and my mother
I have been married for 5 years [now], and [unfortunately] there is always [some sort of] quarrel in the family. I have a mother and young brothers for whom I am solely responsible – as I am the [only] one who works and financially supports them.
My wife seeks separate accommodation
I am experiencing a problem with my wife. Two years after my father passed away, I got married, and [after his death], it was I who had assumed the responsibility for my mother and infant brothers – and after Allaah (‘Azza wa Jall) I have been the only provider for them.
Something special for my wife
I live [together] with my father, my mother, my wife and my brothers in one house, and sometimes I bring something specifically for my wife to eat – without my parents knowing [about it]. And privately together, my wife and I eat; so what is the ruling regarding that?
He regularly prays at home
I am married to a very good man who treats me well, and together we have three children. However, he does not pray in the masjid, but regularly prays at home – whether or not he is busy.