Joking in speech is like salt in food; if it is lacking or more than necessary, then it is disliked/reprehensible.
Tag: etiquette
Spreading the faults and shortcomings of the leaders
It is not from [the etiquettes of] giving advice to spread the faults and shortcomings of the leaders, since that fills the hearts with anger and hate towards the [established and recognised] leaders.
Show the good qualities
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that when we are with them, we only mention the good deeds and qualities of our sisters and brothers, and hide their bad.
Remain silent about the pain
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that when we are with them, we display good relations with our sisters and brothers…
Maintaining contact with our parents
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that we do not suffice with keeping contact with them via modern gadgets…
This causes them anguish
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that we do not argue with our sisters and brothers, nor raise our voice in the presence of our parents…
Doing something for them ourselves
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that we rise to be of service to them, bearing in mind that doing something for them ourselves is from the best ways to honour them…
With good manner and kind words
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is, with good manner and kind words, teach them what they do not know…
I am the only one who is
From the correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that we do not make them feel that our sisters and brothers are not concerned about them, and that you are the only one who is.
What are they doing?
The correct understanding and etiquette of honouring our parents and being dutiful to them is that when Allaah has chosen us to be dutiful to one (or both) of our parents, we do not allow Shaytaan to corrupt this favour of Allaah upon us…