Reference: Fataawa al-Lajnah ad-Daa.imah lil-Buhooth al-‘Ilmiyyah wal-Iftaa. – Fatwa No.8844
al-Fataawa al-Muta’alliqah bit-Tibb wa Ahkaam al-Mardhaa – Pages 308-309
Question: A woman is grieving because she is not pregnant; And sometimes she cries and ends up thinking a lot and becomes withdrawn from life, so what is the ruling and what advice do you have for her?
Response: It is not befitting for this woman to grieve and cry because she is unable to conceive. This is because the natural ability in the man and the woman to conceive and have children, whether they be male only or female only or part male and part female, and the inability of the man and the woman to conceive – all of this is by the decree of Allaah (‘Azza wa Jall). He (Subhaanau wa Ta’aala) says:
So He (‘Azza wa Jall) is All-Knowing as to who is deserving of all these, and is All Able to do what He chooses.
And there is a good example for the female questioner in [the story of] Yahya ibn Zakariyyaa and ‘Eesaa ibn Maryam (upon them both be peace); Neither of the two had children, so, she is required to be content [with what Allaah has decreed for her] and ask Allaah for her needs, as He has the most encompassing Wisdom and Ability.
And there is no harm in her presenting herself to some of the specialist female doctors, and male doctors should she be unable to find a specialist female doctor. It is quite possible that which is preventing her from conceiving can be treated such as blocked tubes. And likewise, it is befitting that her husband present himself to a specialist male doctor since it is quite possible that he himself is the cause of his wife not being able to conceive.
And with Allaah lies all success and may Allaah send prayers and salutations upon our Prophet Muhammad ﷺ and his family and his companions.
